Some time ago I was on a Scouting Leadership trip (PLC) and we were discussing the term of legacy, among other things. I went into the week not really knowing much about what we were going to be doing. The agenda of the week was purposely kept a secret. Not in a bad way, but just to make sure that we went in with an open mind. That I did. I went in thinking one thing, and came out thinking an entirely different thing (or two).

LEGACY is defined by Merriam-Webster as: something transmitted by or received from an ancestor or predecessor or from the past.

That definintion has new meaning to me now. While at PLC I realized what legacy really is. It means that we ALL have been helped by someone along the way. Whether it’s a parent, a coach, a mentor, a teacher, etc. As the Beatles once said: “Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends”. (With a Little Help from My Friends) None of us have gotten where we are without a little help from our friends. In some cases, it has been a lot of help. That’s ok.

Being at Philmont, away from my friends (making new ones along the way) it hit me. I have been helped along the way, particularly in my Scouting journey. There have been people who have really influnced the path I have taken. Some of them are still influencing my decisions today. I have a hard time saying no when they “suggest” that I should do something. They know who they are and they know how important they are to me. There are also people who have come into my life, who are no longer here. It’s those people that I really started thinking about at PLC. Some of them, never got the chance to do things that I have done. Yeah, realizing that hit me hard. It came crashing down on me like a ton of bricks. I broke down in front of complete strangers. I’d known them for a few days and we had bonded a bit, but trust me, they were strangers and it was weird to be that vulnerable. That’s why they say PLC is “changing lives”.

My legacy is building on the legacy of those who helped me. My legacy is not what I can teach others and pass on to them. It’s what we can teach them. It’s what we can pass along? It’s our collective experiences that will shape and mold the next generation. We can only do our best to teach them that everyone is connected: the past, the present and the future. Everything we do, particularly in Scouting but in life as well, is for us, them, and everyone.

"The power of youth is the common wealth for the entire world. The faces of young people are the faces of our past, our present and our future. No segment in the society can match with the power, idealism, enthusiasm and courage of the young people.” — Kailash Satyarthi

When I think of Leadership, I can’t help but think of the Key and Peele skit. It’s about the adventures of a substitute teacher. Chances are pretty good that you’ve seen it. It’s pretty funny. Anyways, at one point the students are talking about the ‘clubs’ they are in at the school. One of them says she is in the “Future Leaders of America Club”. He asks how she knows she’s going to be a leader, in the future? Needless to say it makes me laugh.

No one really knows if they are going to be a leader or not. Sure you can learn to be a manager, but it’s harder to become a leader. You can learn, but it’s also within you. Usually, it’s not something that you decide either. Someone else has to decide that they agree with you enough that they want to join you. That they want to follow you. That they want you as their leader. Same as you didn’t decide to become a leader, you don’t get to decide if you aren’t one anymore either.

Don’t set out with the intention to be a leader. Set out with the intention of doing the right thing. Lead by example. People will notice. People will follow. It may take awhile, but consistently showing up for others, over and over, and doing it with authenticity and integrity, will get you noticed.

“A leader's job is not to do the work for others, it's to help others figure out how to do it themselves, to get things done, and to succeed beyond what they thought possible.” — Simon Sinek

I would say that I am a leader and I have been now for awhile. Notice I didn’t say if I was a good leader or not. Notice I didn’t say what I am a leader of (men, women, adults, youth). Within Scouting, I have been a leader several times. I was a Den Leader when my son started. Right there in the title, I was told what I was and showed it to everyone else. I was in charge.

“Ladies and gentlemen, can I please have your attention. I've just been handed an urgent and horrifying news story. I need all of you to stop what you're doing and listen.” — Ron Burgundy

That’s how I felt sometimes. People looked at me as a Den Leader and just waited to hear what I had to say. I said do this, they did it. (youth and parents alike). Is that really being a leader though? Or is that just being in charge and being a manager? Speaking of being a manager, that’s kind of what I am now. I moved into the position of CubMaster this time last year. Now I am “in charge” of the Den Leaders. I make sure that they have what they need. But I try to do more than that. I try to lead them. I try to share my vision, my experiences with them. I like to get their input, and work together. I want them to know where I’m coming from, and where I want us to head, together. Only time will tell how it goes.